Cruising Together 2010

Arranging your wedding is one tough task, but if there's anything trickier, it is planning for your honeymoon destination. As taxing as it will be, choosing the perfect honeymoon destination will make your first vacation as man and wife nothing short of wonderful and will surely build memories that will last a lifetime. Cruising Together You'll definitely love it when you and the love of your life are cruising together in some of the most romantic cities you can imagine. Take a trip of a lifetime by having your honeymoon in a luxury boat while enjoying the romantic ambience and the elegance of fine dining. Bon Appétit There's a saying that "A way to a man's heart is through his stomach..." and if this quote suits you and your loved one, then going on a food trip should definitely be your top choice. Indulge in the specialties of known or even unknown restaurants in your trip. Satisfy your palate every chance you get and though it is possible doing such may get you on the heavier side, what the heck, enjoy your time together and just hit the gym when you finally get home. Adventure of your life If you want a honeymoon which is exciting and wherein you may say "guess where we had our honeymoon?" then an adventure trip is just for you. Whether it's just an overnight stay in a mountain cabin, surfing under the afternoon heat or white water rafting, this honeymoon is definitely not the type where you watch the action go by, instead, you're right smack in the middle of the action on an adventure trip.   Out of the Country "Around the world in 80 days...", if you love that song, then you'll surely love travelling to different countries. You don't have to do it in 80 days, of course. Have the time of your life while learning of the different cultures and traditions of the countries that you're going to. This is one trip that you'll definitely never forget. Private Villas Of course, there really is no place like home, and if you're the type who prefers the "feel" of your own home, then plan a honeymoon trip to a private villa. Cuddle, kiss passionately, love endlessly, nothing says privacy and alone time more than your "home away from home."

Perfect up-do… perfectly you!

As little girls, women always fantasized about their dream wedding. It’s the most romantic day of a woman’s life and one of the most important decisions in planning your dream wedding is choosing the perfect hair accessory. Just like finding the perfect guy, a bride should also find the perfect match to your wedding gown. As all eyes are on you on your big day, here are tips in selecting the right wedding hair piece.

TIARA

How would you like to look like a modern-day princess on your wedding day? Then the tiara is the hair piece for you. Tiaras are typically designed with rhinestones and crystals and worn when your hair is in a bun. If you chose a gown that is not heavily beaded or embroidered, a tiara as your head piece will surely provide the right amount of sparkle.

HAIR COMBS

Hair combs are typically used to hold and accent a bun. If you’re the type who wants a simple hairstyle, then a hair comb should do the trick. Combs are usually deemed as a traditional look but if you want to amp up your up-do, then choose a fun or flirty design.

FRESH FLOWERS

If a crafted wedding hair accessory isn’t your style, you may opt to use fresh flowers instead. Choosing flowers, whether a big one or a group of tiny flowers, gives versatility where your hair is concerned. You may tuck a flower behind the ear when you want your hair down or at the base of a ponytail or a bun. Now, how’s that for having a fresh and natural look on your wedding day!  

HEADBAND

For a polished, reserved look, a headband will serve the purpose. It can be worn with either the hair down or in a bun. If you’re going to have a formal wedding in a church, soften your look by using a pearl headband in an up-do. For an informal setting such as in a garden, just let your hair down with soft, loose curls and top it with a thin headband.

HAIRPIN

If you have a medium length hair, a hairpin would be a nice accessory for your wedding. Gather your hair at the back of your neck and lock it with a hairpin. Or for a softer look, you may use it to secure your side-swept bangs, tucked behind your ear.

I’M NOT GETTING OLD…JUST GETTING WISER!

It’s a fact that most of us are afraid of getting old. We associate old to being wrinkly and boring. We have a lot of reasons why we are afraid of growing old: some are afraid of being old alone, others senseless. A lot are afraid to lose their beauty and still more afraid of losing the excitement of youth. I, too, fear a lot about getting old. I’m afraid to grow old not accomplishing my dreams, not being able to give my parents and siblings the life that I want them to have in appreciation for the great life they’ve given me, not being able to give my child the best things in life, not being able to give my husband my job of being the best wife. But then, I realized, if I wallow in all my fears, I won’t actually be able to do what I needed to do to realize all my dreams for my loved ones; and especially, for myself. And so, my dear friends let me share some insights about breezing through “growing old.”

First of all, accept that getting old is inevitable. Once we have accepted that, everything else will come easier. I noticed that in this world, there’s always a hustle and bustle to a lot of things. People date because they deem it fashionable or they’re desperate. Some people marry because they’re miserable and some have kids because they think they’re running out of time. It is smarter to take things slow since at times winning is not the end result to some of life’s hasty decisions, only regrets. Don’t sleep around because you think you can afford it and you know better. Don’t be tough and hurt your children because loving them is tougher. Don’t settle for Mr. Right Now and most of all don’t waste your life on definitely Mr. Wrong because your biological clock is ticking.

There are times when you need to be alone to have clarity of mind. To end your lonesomeness, connect with the dispossessed. To feed your fostering nature, tend to the poor. To satisfy your parenting desires, adopt a puppy. To be warm, purchase a coat. Eventually, you’ll discover that it’s much less complicated. To achieve happiness, follow your dreams, be satisfied with what you have and be the best of what God has planned you to be. It will be best to simplify your life. Having lots of friends is good, but having a few, great and trustworthy friends are better. Working to have a good life is good, but don’t overwork yourself to death. Always be true to your word. Don’t keep suitors waiting pointlessly, but don’t commit when you’re still not ready.

Fall in love when you think the feeling is ripe – it’s the most wonderful thing on earth. Don’t be afraid to say “I Love You!” Say it with abandon. Love deeply. Hold hands. Kiss with passion. The relationship may end, but at least you can say to yourself that you gave yourself the chance to love unconditionally. Don’t be afraid to lose love, it comes with the territory. Just remember that after the fall always comes the rise. And eventually, you will meet your Mr. Right who will give you the unconditional love which you deserve.

Life indeed doesn’t get any easier with age. It may get difficult but don’t be afraid. Keep control of your life, be satisfied with what you have, accept that things may be harsh and aging is inevitable. Most of all don’t lose faith in God. By doing even a small percentage of these things, you’ll discover that life isn’t half as bad and you’re happier. By then you can proudly say, “I’m not getting old…just getting wiser!”

Finding "THE ONE"...The Perfect Wedding Gown, that is!

You found the perfect guy, now it’s time to find the perfect gown. Choosing the ideal wedding dress is one of the most important decisions while planning your dream wedding. It may be intimidating, as all eyes are on you and you need to make sure that you’re stunning on your big day. As overwhelming as it is, here are some tips to help you choose the perfect wedding gown for you.

1. Time line - One of the most exciting parts of planning a wedding is buying your gown. Bear in mind your time line. Women tend to overlook this important step, but order your gown at least 6-8 months in advance and arrange for a fitting two weeks to a month prior to your wedding. Giving yourself ample time is essential especially if alterations are to be made before the wedding since this takes time, as well.

2.    Budget - Identify what your options are and set your budget. If your finances allow it, go to a couturier for a made to order gown for you. But for the budget-conscious, you don’t need to fret since there are a lot of beautiful gowns out there which you can purchase off the rack or rent out.

3.    Choose the right design for your body shape – Wedding gowns come in all shapes and sizes and finding the appropriate one for your body shape can be daunting. So, if you’re tall and thin, you have the ideal body type. You may wear anything from soft, flowy materials to lots of trimmings. Petite women will look best in an A-line gown and to look taller, go for an empire-cut chiffon gown. A V-cut neckline with detailing and a simple bodice is most flattering for full-figured women.

4.    Location - When buying a wedding dress, take into consideration the location of the wedding. If you want your wedding in a church, you may choose any gown that you prefer. But if you’re planning to have a beach wedding, choose a gown where you can be comfortable the whole day. Pick one that is shorter in length and has a lighter material.

5.    The “Second Opinion” - As much as possible, bring someone with you whom you trust when it comes to choosing the right clothing. It may be your mother, sister or best friend. Although you think you have found THE dress, it won’t hurt to get a second opinion of a trusted companion. After all, it’s your endeavor for people to see you as lovely as possible, so it’s important to ask the point of view of another person.

Why it's important to have some "alone time"

While I was checking out the promos in Smart Parenting, I came across the question "Why is it important for you to have some alone time in a week?" and it actually made me think...and think real hard. One, because I don't even remember the last time that I had an alone time and more importantly, do I really need to have one, being the busy homemaker that I am? As I reflected on my life now, I realized that I was tired, quite unhappy and was unsure of what I really want. Physically tired because of all the work that I had and have to do at home (mind you, I'm a homemaker, as well as, a home-based worker). Quite unhappy because I feel unsatisfied with what I have accomplished so far..I feel I needed more..more of what, you ask? I actually am quite unsure...and that made me realize that I do need to have some alone time... Having alone time, I figured, would let you rediscover who you were, what you used to want and what you really want in life. It lets you be who you really are without having to impress anyone, without worrying what to do next, without having anyone judging you if what you're doing is right or wrong. At that point in time, there's only you. Having that important time allows you to reflect on the person that you have become and the person that you want to be. It gives you the chance to "cleanse" your mind for the necessary decisions that you have to make...having that alone time, now I am sure, would somehow "make you whole" again...and would give you the energy and the right mindset to face the craziness that you're going to encounter once that time is up. So, do we really need to have an alone time? Just think of this, even Jesus Christ had His "alone time" before making the most important decision in His life...If He deemed it important to have that alone time, don't you think it's important for us to have one, too?

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For the Love of My Life: DVB Jr ni KDB

You by The Carpenters

You are the one who makes me happy
When everything else turns to gray
Yours is the voice that wakes me mornings
And sends me out into the day
You are the crowd that sits quiet
Listening to me
And all the mad sense that I make

You are one of the few things
worth remembering
And since it's all true
How could anyone mean more to me
Than you?

Sorry if sometimes I look past you
There's no one beyond your eyes
Inside my head wheels are turning
Hey, sometimes I'm not so wise
You are my heart and my soul
My inspiration
Just like the old love song goes

You are one of the few things
worth remembering
And since it's all true
How could anyone mean more to me
Than you?

Rewards of spending quality time with your kid

My son, Bon and I were watching Mickey Mouse Clubhouse and their theme was about Bestfriends. After that episode, my Bon said, "MAMA, YOU'RE MY BESTFRIEND" and then hugged and kissed me...I almost cried...I told him he's my best friend, too (It's true, he is my bff!). He smiled and then hugged and kissed me again...This time my tears fell...

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, BON!